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Values-Based Leadership For Dummies®

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Introduction

Welcome to Values-Based Leadership For Dummies! There’s always something in life that sets us on a trajectory toward a goal. We seek, consciously or unconsciously, to fulfill that goal our entire lives. For me, it’s always been to be a really good leader who does the right thing by my people. I always knew that if you treated people well, they would go to the ends of the earth for you. Treat them badly, and you’ve got a whole other problem on your hands. I could chalk it up to being one of four children in a boisterous house where my mother taught me to always look out for my brothers and sister — and everyone else. Maybe you’re the same. It’s just programmed in there. No matter what, it’s unshakable. You too?

So, here we are together, about to embark on this journey called values-based leadership (VBL). I’ve ventured to share whatever I’ve learned over these many years in business, personally and through my mentors and clients. It’s not perfect — after all, I’m not perfect. Even the title “expert” makes me cringe. This book is just one woman’s take on the topic of leadership. It may not suit everyone. But it’s completely customizable, so you can take what you like and leave the rest behind.

On this journey, there will be good days. There will be bad days. And then there will be those days when you think you just simply can’t bear it anymore. But I assure you, you will bear it. You won’t abandon your team. I know that because you’re here with me. Sure, you may move on, but leaving for other opportunities isn’t abandonment. Abandonment means not caring about them and saying, “See ya later.” You won’t do that. I know that with every fiber of my being, because it’s not just your average human being who will pick up a book titled Values-Based Leadership For Dummies. You’re seeking to make the business workplace whole again with an eye on the bottom line. And man, am I happy you’re here! The world needs you. The people you lead, or will lead, need you.

About This Book

First and foremost, I want to assure you that this book is for current and would-be leaders, managers, entrepreneurs, solopreneurs, and every other person who exchanges in the art of commerce. I’ve done my best to include a few key entry points for those who aren’t in “traditional” business setups. And just about everything in this book can be used for more than one purpose. Don’t shy away from a chapter just because it doesn’t seem to pertain to you at first glance. You may be very surprised by what you learn about yourself. Self-reflection plays a central role throughout this process. Without it, you’ll be flying blind. Seeing ourselves, our true motives, and how the decisions we make affect many lives requires such introspection.

Values-Based Leadership For Dummies isn’t meant to be read as a step-by-step manual. However, you’ll need to embrace some foundational principles and attitudes in order to make use of many of the other tools. If you’re reading something that isn’t quite making sense to you, I suggest you go to Parts 1 and 2 to find the core principle and meaning of why certain tools are important in the process.

Be warned: I’m going to offer you a different way of viewing leadership and business as a whole. Understanding that commerce is a vehicle for something good, even noble, will forever change how you lead other people. It will also change how you look at your role in this grand play. Your role is to create businesses and teams that serve one another and the community around you, and corporate social responsibility (CSR) is the way to achieve this. This all may sound grandiose, but I assure you that it’s no longer an option — it’s the way things are now, and it’s become the normal expectation of employees. Preparing for that will assure survival of your leadership.

The principles of VBL establish a platform to create a great company culture where people are focused on living the values set forth by the leader and the organization. This creates a ripple effect into every nook and cranny of the organization: your business model, investing in your team, building strong partnerships, cultivating future leaders, improving communication, and making sure people are the right fit for the organization. Collaboration is the environment where people win. And this is all built on the foundation you set using trust as the key ingredient.

I’m a pretty straightforward person. I’m not very good at hinting around without telling you what’s really going on. In this book you find real steps and concrete activities to help you move through situations. You find real stories of real experiences. Don’t you just hate when people skirt around the issue and never get to the meat? Me too! Or they tell you they did something amazing but won’t share how they made it happen. Ugh. It’s so annoying. That won’t happen here.

Some of the stories appear in shaded boxes called sidebars. They’re skippable, though when you get the chance you may enjoy reading them. My clients and some of my own personal experiences are pretty amusing. I’ve also provided some juicy info marked with the Technical Stuff icon to appeal to analytical types who want to know the what, how, and why. Figures and lists are sprinkled throughout for maximum saturation of concepts, facts, and processes.

One more thing: You may notice that some web addresses break across two lines of text. If you’re reading this book in print and want to visit one of these web pages, simply key in the web address exactly as it’s noted in the text, pretending as though the line break doesn’t exist. If you’re reading this as an e-book, you’ve got it easy — just click the web address to be taken directly to the web page.

Foolish Assumptions

Assumptions can sometimes get us into trouble. However, it’s really important that we’re all on the same page together. So, for the moment forget what they say about making assumptions and have a look at the following laundry list. I assume that you

Additional assumptions about you, on a more personal level, are that

Icons Used in This Book

Throughout your exploration of this book, you’ll notice some markers along the way. I’ve set these in place to call out certain elements on your journey. The little images in the margins of this book, called icons, are signs to pay attention to. Here’s what they look like and how to use them:

tip This icon alerts you to a tip or action that will help you implement what you’re learning.

remember If you take anything away from this book, it should be information marked with this icon. It’s a good place to pause and absorb.

warning This icon serves as a flashing light to alert you to potential missteps, mishaps, or landmines.

technicalstuff This icon highlights statistics and other more technical things that support the material. This is for those who want to know the stats and results from various studies. If that’s not you, feel free to skip this stuff.

Beyond the Book

If you’re more of a get-to-the-point, read-it-on-my-phone-during-my-commute, quick-reference kind of person, I’ve got something to suit your style. To view this book’s Cheat Sheet, simply go to www.dummies.com and search for “Values-Based Leadership For Dummies Cheat Sheet” to find a handy reference guide that answers common questions about VBL.

More bonus materials can be found on www.VBLeader.com and www.MariaGamb.com. There you’ll find a very cool infographic pathway to VBL that will keep you focused and on track. You can also subscribe to my newsletter while you’re there to receive tips and reminders that are short, sweet, and to the point. Best of all, all of that is completely free.

Should you decide you’d like to learn more about VBL training, communication skills, or signature Values 2 Vision Retreats, you can find it on the website or drop me a line at info@mariagamb.com. I customize all training and coaching programs to the needs of the users and the company.

Where to Go from Here

I’m not sure anything in life is completely linear. We can plan, but plans are often trampled by life. Journeys take unexpected detours. But ultimately, we end up exactly where we need to be. You may, of course, skip around this book at your leisure. One element or another may catch your eye, and that could be your starting point. That’s fine.

However, I suggest that you consider beginning with Part 1. Business is a bit different today. You may find that the reframing process around how we view businesses and leadership has evolved. I believe that many of these concepts will help you recognize that VBL is exactly what you’ve been looking for, though you may not have been able to put into words. It’s a world where business and leaders serve many — without the fluffy stuff and talking sticks.

Feel free to use the table of contents and index to skip around after that to see what’s most appealing to you. If you’ve got a challenge with motivating people, for example, head to Chapter 16. Perhaps there’s a serious lack of trust where you currently work? Jump to Chapter 9. However, all roads eventually lead back the grounding principles and tools to becoming a values-based leader that I discuss in Part 2. Parts 3 and 4 talk about setting your own values standards right here and now — and how to further roll out the influence of your leadership within an organization. Values without actions are meaningless.

All roads also go back to the leader, to how they engage with and lead all who follow them. That would be you. At times, you may wonder whether all of this can actually be done. I respect that. Leadership is a skill that you’ll learn to sharpen through experiences. The more you seek knowledge and apply what you’ve learned, the faster the process will unfold. So, although I certainly want you to get to it, I also advise you to take your time.

Whatever you do, don’t treat this book with intimidated reverence. Take it with you on vacation. Mark it up. Sticky-note the daylights out of it. Most of my favorite books are full of highlighting, dog-ears, and penciled-in notes. I’m hoping you find enough value and wisdom in these pages to do the same to this book. If there’s a coffee cup ring on the cover, even better!

You’re exactly where you need to be to start this journey. Don’t tarry. Just jump in.

Part 1

Getting Started with Values-Based Leadership

IN THIS PART …

Explore the basic concepts and application of values-based leadership.

Decipher the workforce Quad: who they are, what they want, and how they’re reshaping leadership today.

Understand why values-based leadership requires a different type of leader who can focus on we rather than just me. Narcissism is an outdated strategy.

Unravel what it really means to create a shared values economy and see how it can help boost your organization’s effectiveness to make a difference.

Chapter 1

Welcome to the World of Values-Based Leadership

IN THIS CHAPTER

check Understanding the progression of company culture

check Recognizing the steps of values-based leadership

check Knowing when change is necessary in a company

check Creating a winning company with values and character

I wonder why you’re here, reading this book. Are you experiencing a problem in your own leadership? Or have you perhaps recognized that you want to move your organization in a more constructive, socially aware, and purposeful direction? Maybe you’ve begun the practice of values-based leadership (VBL), but something isn’t firing on all cylinders yet. You may be looking to find the missing pieces. You may be a Millennial who knows you’re going to lead massive teams, and you just want to get a leg up on how this leadership may look outside of the models you’ve seen already.

All these reasons are valid, but the common thread is the desire for change. People don’t always come to change easily. At times, it’s consciously accepted, but sometimes change is forced on them. You may be thinking, I know something has to change, but I’m not sure what to do now. Knowing there’s a need for change is the first step in VBL.

The second step is understanding that change begins with you. Then everyone else will follow. In this chapter (and this book), you go through a journey that requires deep introspection, deciding what you stand for, and the courage to carry out a plan. Read on.

Walking through the Evolution of Company Culture

Company culture wasn’t always a catchphrase. It was more like a fraternity. The hit show Mad Men dramatized the clublike mentality of the American workplace and showed a culture that was mostly male. Women had little power. Business was conducted with copious amounts of alcohol. There was little respect for clients and customers. Leaders, in general, had weak moral fiber. It’s true the show was a dramatization, but it was an insightful one.

Some of the 1960s mentality carried through time; fast-forward to the 1990s, and still not many people considered business to be a vehicle to help others or give back to communities. That’s what charities were for. Twenty-five years ago, we were far less global, not yet connected to one another through the Internet, and less aware of the world around us.

However, groups like Conscious Capitalism, formed in 2010 and spearheaded by Whole Foods CEO John Mackey, began bringing social and community needs to light and suggested a way of doing business differently. What was once considered earthy or crunchy consciousness in how we do business has gone mainstream. (See the nearby sidebar “The rise of awareness” for more on Conscious Capitalism.)

The world has changed. Diversity has improved. Immigration is a constant. Women are more prevalent in the workforce than at any other time in our history. Our interconnected lives via social media are bringing us closer in some ways, but also propelling us to need more time to disconnect and have our own life experiences.

American culture has changed as generation after generation seeks better way of living, working, and experiencing new and more interesting opportunities. But now the tsunami is here: the Millennial generation. They are the largest cohort in the history of the planet. They will take all of us over the top to a new way of thinking about business and being corporate citizens.

remember The goalposts have moved. Profits are great, but they need to be achieved in conjunction with a purpose or mission, and a company culture that behaves responsibly to its employees, the communities it does business in, and the broader world. (To find out more about how Millennials will influence every aspect of life, head to Chapter 2.)

Understanding the Escalator Effect of Values-Based Leadership

VBL continues the evolution of how we choose to engage in business. It’s the next step in the integration of one of the initial Conscious Capitalism principles: Business is good, noble, and heroic because it provides ethical opportunities for everyone.

VBL expands on Conscious Capitalism using a specific, yet customizable, set of values as the platform for norms of doing business with others and internally. Each step in this leadership model (see Figure 1-1) leads to an organization that performs at maximum capacity.

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FIGURE 1-1: Leadership escalator.

remember Within each of the five sectors in Figure 1-1, specific tasks, actions, and behaviors need to be instituted. This is the starting point of your journey — the awareness of what I will unfold in this book. Here is an overview of what each sector means:

So, are you in? Your reaction to the top-level view will tell you a lot about your own capacity to evolve, change, grow, and adapt. What’s your willingness level at this point? Rank it from one to five. One means “I’m really not interested at all.” (I highly doubt these individuals are reading this book.) Three means, “You’ve got my attention but I’m not sure,” and five means, “I’m all in.”

If you’re at a three, teetering in either direction, read on. Fours and fives, you’re definitely in the right place.

Avoiding a Flatline to Extinction: When You Know Change Is Needed

There’s a concept in nature called bifurcation. Bifurcation is a process that nature takes to renew itself. Usually it involves a disruption or inflammation that precipitates a split, a morphing into two. For example, deep forests are prone to fires. Within the forest are types of trees, spores, and other flora that require excessive heat for them to reproduce. With fire, they grow and multiply. Without it, they rot and die. One branch of possibility becomes life-affirming as a result of the disruption, and the other (without the disruption) could lead to the species becoming extinct.

When we apply bifurcation to business, we see that normal disruptions happen, and as a result — for example, the market crash in 2008 or massive corruption scandals — the system is forced to make a choice: review, reflect, and enact change, or do nothing at all (see Figure 1-2). Doing the latter often results in the company petering out into extinction. Many companies and their leadership have taken this route. Sure, sometimes staying the course and holding steady are great. But at some point, we all must upgrade our systems, thinking, and ways of being to continue to be viable.

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FIGURE 1-2: Bifurcation decision point.

Not all disruptions or course corrections are a result of such large issues as I’ve described. Consider the following as potential signs that a change is needed in the leadership approach:

tip The preceding bullets cover just some of the many issues you can list as reasons to consider making a change. If I missed your particular reason, feel free to write it on a sticky note and place it in this chapter as a reminder of why you’re here with me now. Either way, Figure 1-2 illustrates the crossroads.

Once the decision is made that something must change, which is where I think you may be in this moment, the next step is to conduct a review to determine how to course correct and then roll out adaptive action and rewrite the future. You may be on a course that’s not sustainable. People may begin walking away from the company (see Chapter 19), or apathy may continue to weigh down progress. I’ve seen both happen. In your heart, you’re probably thinking, I just need to give this one more shot before I walk away. Or: This place has massive potential, but things have to change.

warning What’s scary is when leaders either refuse to see they have a problem or don’t care enough to make any changes. That, inevitably, leads to extinction — dismissal of leadership and potentially the failure of the company.

tip However, you don’t need to wait for your most senior leadership to embrace the principles and attributes laid out in this book. You can get started wherever you are in your organization. Chapter 12 shows you how to do this; there are prompts for those of you who may be on a solo journey inside an organization or who are entrepreneurs.

You make the choice to grow, change, and adapt and create a brighter future — or not. To make this choice, you need to be a leader who is open-minded, ruthlessly self-aware, and willing to look at the truth of your results. You also need to be savvy enough to understand that the world of business is changing. Will you keep up or be left behind?

Although remnants of the old, establishment way of operating linger on, this Millennial wave is becoming tremendously influential and will continue to lead us into a more progressive view of business. Already leaders of today are required to deploy a more comprehensive set of tools that go well beyond a technical skill set and a lofty education. Empathy and awareness are being added to leaders’ skill set. So-called “soft skills” are no longer considered intangibles. They’re a big component of why people will want to work for you and with you, and why they’ll aspire to follow the leadership image you provide for them.

remember Throughout this book I provide you with several different situational applications of these and other soft tools. The most important is the use of self-reflection to gain insight into yourself and your motivations. You must consider what it will mean for you to operate in a “we” rather than “me” environment (see Chapter 3). Reframing how to view business differently sets the foundation for your journey. You’ll encounter the following questions again and again in subsequent chapters because this is always going to be your check-in point:

remember You have to assess the selflessness of your leadership. You’ll need to make decisions that affect the whole. Knowing which course to take may become murky, but be sure that you’re thinking of the whole — the we — of the organization. When it gets into me territory, you’re in trouble. Everyone has a survival mechanism that’s designed to look out for number one — to protect yourself. But when it comes to your leadership role, we must always be part of the equation.

Building Winning Organizations: Culture Eats Strategy for Lunch

Management expert Peter Drucker once said, “Culture eats strategy for lunch.” This is one of those statements that should be posted in your workspace. Your company culture will make or break your success because your culture is a reflection of you and how you’ve set up the engagement for the entire organization. Although there are some outside factors that you may not be able to control 100 percent of the time, such as rogue leaders or managers, the overall tone of the organization rests on the ground rules you establish (the values) for engagement that establish the working conditions both internally and externally. (See Part 2 for full details.)

Creating that environment of trust and a culture of engagement means people are, literally, engaged and felt taken care of. Employees will stay with a leader they know has their best interests at heart longer than they’ll stay with one who doesn’t know their name or care about them. This isn’t a kumbaya situation I’m talking about. It’s about treating others with dignity and respect. This culture wins out every time when coupled with clear direction, goals, and support to exceed expectations. Playing loose won’t get you past the goalpost — structure and clarity are what channel talent and enthusiasm toward a productive end. (Check out Part 3 for more information.)

On the flip side, an organization full of apathetic, downtrodden, low-energy employees is usually not operating under focused leadership. It’s nearly impossible unless one of the field-level leaders corrals them and applies VBL at that point of interaction. And if that happens, it still means only one team is productive. Guess what? That will lead to resentment. Although there will always be a portion of the workforce who is happy to just come in, do nothing, and collect a paycheck, fortunately that’s not everyone.

Being aware of who is willing and hungry for direction is the way to start to mobilize a potentially demoralized group of people. People will follow those who offer hope. Through VBL, you’ll be able to extend that feeling to harness the amazing talent in your organization. In the following sections, I introduce the two vital components of building a winning organization: values and character.

tip Managers and leaders in the field can create their own private nirvanas using VBL principles, as you find out in Chapter 12. This version addresses how you can fill in the gap between your employees and potentially leaders above you who are either too busy or uninterested in VBL as a solution. It’s not always easy, but it can be done successfully.

Shaping the company culture with values

remember What exactly do I mean by values? To start, let’s get on the same page with regard to terminology here:

  • Values: Fundamental beliefs that make you who you are or make your organization what it is. There are several categories of values — this book focuses on core values only (flip to Chapter 11 for details).
  • Values-based leaders: Based on core values, setting the foundation of how everyone will engage creates an expectation that the leader always operates for the greater good of all. The expectation is that the leader has a well-developed character that establishes an environment of mutual respect, at a minimum. (Part 2 focuses on becoming a values-based leader.)
  • Values-based organizations: A business isn’t just the building that contains the staff that works with and for you. VBL extends beyond and reverberates into everything the organization stands for. Based on the values selected, values-based organizations determine ground rules for how we do business, how we invest in others, how we serve the community, and how we create sustainability (see Chapter 3 for more information).

When the leader sets the organization on a clear track and models from the front rather than lecturing others, the team will follow suit. This creates a fair, level working environment imbued with the values and clear expectations that employees use when they work with vendors, suppliers, and overseas partners without exception. Core values are woven into every aspect of the company’s being and presence. They’re the commitment and promise made as to who you will be and how you will operate every day — not just on good days, but always.

This process not only creates a consistent company culture, but it also provides the framework to build your reputational capital — capital that doesn’t necessarily have a price tag but that will affect your bottom line (see Chapter 10). Investors, creditors, and stockholders want to know you’re consistent. Staff, vendors, and suppliers want to know you’re trustworthy. Cultivate a positive reputation, and people will flock to work with you and for you. Get a poor reputation, and you may never get the best talent or the funding to expand your situation. It’s as simple as that.

Influencing the company culture with your character

Character is the means between two extremes. It is the balanced point between a deficiency and an excess of a trait. It’s nearly impossible to always take the middle road; humans tend to lean to one side or another of the characteristic embodied. This is also called the near-mean, or the one favored. The favored isn’t always the darker or more extreme side of the spectrum.

remember In this book, you traverse a number of the traits that make up a values-based leader, but the singular trait all leaders require is courage. On a continuum, courage ranges from timidity and caution to boldness and rashness. Sitting somewhere between caution and boldness is what would be required of any leader in just about any demonstration. That’s because the fundamentals of leadership require not just insight and perception but also efficacy — getting things done.

People can’t have the greater good in mind or the desire to fulfill a purpose as part of their leadership without embodying a balance of courage to persevere in various states of challenge.

remember Additionally, how you behave is an example to everyone around you. The saying “When someone tells you who they are, believe them” rings true. You tell people who you are by the way you speak to others, by the level of care, respect, and discretion you show. You tell them who you are by the depth of honesty that you embody while balancing truth. Each of these characteristics will either build or damage trust (see Chapter 9).

Trust promotes faith in your leadership. It also establishes a playing field where people can express creativity and innovation without feeling judged or confined to the four walls around the existing process or product. Trust promotes growth, which is essential to the organization’s life.

Wherever there is backstabbing, gossip, and judgment in your leadership, replace it with kindness, temperance, patience, and acceptance. This would be a way to demonstrate the action you want others to emulate as well. You can’t manage other people until you manage yourself — that includes your own emotions and possible blind spots.

Chapter 2

Understanding the Evolving Workforce You Serve

IN THIS CHAPTER

check Dissecting different generations in the workforce

check Leading employees of all ages

Lumping people into one category creates tension. Lack of inquiry into knowing who your people are causes frustration. When you know who they are and what matters most to them, you’re deeply connected to your audience. Business creates audiences — the focus is usually on the customer or end user, but for this conversation, the audience that will consume your leadership is made up of the staff, stakeholders, team, tribe, or however you describe the group of people powering the company and your ideas. They’re your best resource because they’re the ones who run the show every day.

Knowing them and their hearts is one way of tapping into the power of your audience. Famous orators and leaders such as John F. Kennedy, Martin Luther King Jr., and Nelson Mandela knew their audiences and knew how to speak directly to them in order to mobilize their ideas. But to do so with your employees, you’ll need to know the influences that fuel their wants and desires.

Having insight into your audience’s wants and desires will help you comprehend the factors that lead to their perceptions of authority, leadership, values, virtues, and work ethics. These are mobilizing factors. In this chapter, I show you how to gain that insight by breaking down the workforce into the beautiful Quad — the four generations currently operating in the workforce today.

Here’s what I’ll be looking at:

  • Who makes up the workforce today?
  • What do they want?
  • What inspires, encourages, and motivates them?
  • What do they want from you, their leader — or do they want to lead?